Marks Of a Mature Disciple

A Study in The Book of James

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“My dear brothers and sisters, how can you claim to have faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ if you favor some people over others?"

James 2:1 NLT

Favoritism is a form of disrespect, and it should not be found in the Body of Christ, although much too often it finds its way in. This is usually an unintentional act, but just the same it can be very painful.

When the subject of favoritism comes up, there is often someone who defends it by pointing out the relationship Jesus had with Peter, James, and John. However, this group of men was much more than a clique that Jesus favored, they were a special part of His ministry.

To be a “respecter of persons” means you respect some while disrespecting others. Jesus was never guilty of disrespecting anyone. We all have family and friends that are closer to us than others. Nevertheless, we must respect everyone equally. We must see the value in everyone; we must give our undivided attention to those who need it. 

Mature disciples not only put others first, but they are also constantly pulling others in. Jesus was always drawing people into the crowd. His disciples would often try to keep the circle exclusive, but Jesus was totally inclusive. In Mark’s gospel (10:47-52), a blind man cried out to Jesus for mercy and the crowd rebuked him to hold his peace. He continued to cry out and Jesus called him into His presence and healed him. The man immediately followed Jesus.

A mature disciple is sensitive to those around them. They make it a point to welcome everyone into the church, regardless of position, power, or prosperity; they treat every person with equal respect because they are no respecters of persons.

James 2:4 states, “doesn’t this discrimination show that your judgments are guided by evil motives?" Those who disrespect and discriminate are led by evil thoughts and motives. This is certainly something God takes seriously and so should we.

Mature disciples find a way to help people fit in, and they don’t leave it up to the pastor or other leaders. They show a genuine interest in other people’s lives.